Tuesday, September 8, 2009

What is true love?



Falling in love is quite complicated thing for me. Still I don’t believe I have been loved by anyone, which may be a good reason I don’t find the exact meaning of what love could be. Anyhow it’s quite easy for point out True love in theoretically, as it happens very rarely.

Love; its simple four letter word commonly thrown around three to four letter word. Most commonly people say I love you or I love her/him. It’s very easy to say but it has a valuable meaning more than just say it, and that’s the part we don’t take it seriously.

People say love can do everything. But there are few things love isn’t that we don’t keep it in mind. Love isn’t a feeling. Although real love is accompanied by strong feelings, it’s more than just a feeling. Real love will not be completed without sharing, caring, respecting, helping and understanding. A relationship wouldn’t last long just on emotions, In fact knowledge of respecting each other feeling the other one’s feeling is the basis of a successful relationship.

Most I see here fall in love very soon same as falling love to a movie star or without seeing, or even without having a real conversation. Do you believe that without knowing a person could lead us to a healthy relationship? Definitely I would oppose to it. Knowing about the other person is the key. This didn’t mean just know the other for name sake. From my perception it’s about the person’s personality and character. We commonly called the typ.

Talking about falling in love and what’s the real meaning of true love most stories defined that a relationship doesn’t work without a common life goal. Saying that we all have a goal that lead to success our love is not enough I guess. Firstly just living together doesn’t mean this is moving to common goal. We need to move forward in the same direction as the other person as well as a relationship is based long term, more over to life long. Both partners have to have common life purpose to achieve in this relationship.

One common mistake we had in our relationships is thinking that love is just sex; indeed Love isn’t sex. Any long last relationship doesn’t mean that sex played a big role; it’s a very small part of big portion. There are lots of ways to share feeling and much more meaningful than sex.

Sometimes we don’t find the real meaning of such things in our life but we understand that. Likewise love is very meaningful unlike we see how it works. I have been in this game more than once, but unfortunately those meanings are which I never find in it. Those great features are yet untold stories which is to be discovered someday, and that’s the day I could be proud of having bad experience in what went before. Cox that experience is the cause to think about what true love means?

3 comments:

sujauu said...

there is no such thing

Anonymous said...

love is all what u need. but true love is the thing that makes u feel ur flying over the sky, dancing out highway. everything that makes u feel special is true love. ur true lover would make u feel special all the ways. dont rush just wait, soon u would get ur true lover.

aishna

AR Hussain said...

@sujauu : may be you ahvent fall for that Suja

@Aishna : Thanks buddy